IF YOU ARE SURVIVING YOUR LIFE NOW THEN CARVE THE LIFE YOU ALWAYS WANTED.
Nov 17 , 2018 15 min read 1846 Views 4 Likes 0 Comments
Have you ever wondered why your thought process and your day to day actions don't correlate with each other? Why do you live a totally different life from the one you have thought? You may have read a lot of articles about this before, but maybe you are more or less the same person. All those reading may not have wholly benefited you.
THE THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS
and again over time becomes particular and becomes an unconscious part of the mind and then it controls us. One more thing that you should remember for change is a Thumb Rule: If it is out of the mind it is out of life, means if your mind forgets about a particular thought then it won't last in your life anymore. Means you feel bad for a particular situation like a death of a relative then it won't bother you when the thought is no longer accessible in your mind or it doesn't come to remind you about it. Once you forget about it and it would happen as if it has never happened in your life. Just like your childhood memories, there are so many lot of memories that you could not remember now because you are no longer in touch in mind as any memory or actions of thoughts. THE CHANGE Then the main thing is how to change a conscious thought to unconscious thought or action and how to eliminate a bad habit or an unnecessary thought from your mind. Main thing you got to remember is we have to take actions and not think about any details related to the actions. Do you remember how we learn to ride a car. At first, you think about everything from the accelerator to steering to brakes to balance. You notice almost everything and in this situation, the main thing that is action and focus is reduced. What about I'm not thinking about the driving in the mind the action takes over then you know no longer have to think about the brakes the steering, accelerator or anything else. You drive the car unconsciously without even knowing about it could drive it even when you are talking to a person or looking somewhere else, it is taken care of by the unconscious part of the mind. So what you should do is reduce your focus and attention from the actions you no longer want in your life and shift your energy towards building the habits and thoughts you want in your life. It could be done by taking small actions at a time, and then over time they would automatically shift to the unconscious part of your mind and you would feel the change. Like wise, you could feel the change your thoughts and actions by changing them from conscious to the unconscious .